Grudges

So many people walk in hatred, unforgiveness, etc. but the truth is.. we never know when it's our time to go ..... Don't die with that on your heart ..... Get it right with GOD!

Let's begin to put some ends to grudges .... They're not worth it, trust me, I KNOW! I held a grudge with my BLOOD-Brother for 5 years!! For 5 LONG years, we didn't even speak.. and we lived in the SAME house! .... Honestly, I hated my brother .... I know what it feels like to hate ... But within that 5 years, I had SOO many nightmares that he died, and I would wake up sad ... That's not what I wanted, but I never made the effort to end the feud ..... It wasn't until I allowed GOD into my life that this 5-year grudge was ended .... My heart was so hardened to apologizing, it took for GOD to completely break me before I could even open my mouth and speak to my brother ... One day, I stood up in church and asked my brother to forgive me and he did! All of my family wept right there because my grudge with my brother had caused so much pain and confusion in ALL of our lives, and it was finally over! Glory be to GOD!

My brother and I have the BEST relationship now, GOD fixed it as if nothing ever happened... But that's 5 years I wasted when me and my brother could have been enjoying those 5 years! 

I waited YEARS for the perfect timing to come so I could talk to my brother & end the grudge... but it never came ... That perfect timing you're waiting on to end a grudge may NEVER come .... But God promises to be your 'very present help' .... Pray, ask the Lord to help you, RECEIVE the Lord's help ..... go to that person and just open your mouth and start talking ..... The best way to start is by saying "I'm sorry" ....

Have a good day (reader)! I love you, God bless.