Far too many of us settle for less because we don't feel we 'deserve' better. Well if you're one of those individuals, I have good news for you from God: You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). You are the apple of God's eye (Psalm 17:8, Zech. 2:8). You are unconditionally loved (Rom. 5:8, Jerem. 31:3, Rom. 8:38-39). You are Not worthless nor overlooked (Jerem. 29:11, Eph. 1:4-5). YOU ARE LOVED BY GOD!!!! (John 3:16)
And if we have accepted Jesus Christ as LORD and Saviour, that officially makes us a Child of God! (John 1:12, Rom. 8:14-16, Galat. 3:26)... And because we are a child of the KING, we are entitled to the BEST! No more settling for being just someone's baby mama or baby daddy when we can be someone's husband or wife. No more settling for being desired just for our body, but also because of our heart, soul, mind and intellect. No more settling for abusive relationships (physically and/or verbally) when we can have a mate who genuinely loves us. No more settling for a broken family when we can have a loving, stable, unified home.
Our time for settling for less is OVER. God has greater in store for us, but until we find out what His Word (the Bible) says concerning us, we will always experience non-fulfillment. So let's attend Church, find out what the Bible says about our current situation, pray to God about it and have faith that He will work it out.
As a writer, my objective is to provoke thought. As a minister, my objective is to encourage you to Christ. As a disciple, my objective is to do these things in love.